When Alexis taunts you, blows you, has you gobble her love button every man will be hard as a stud. The only way to do this scripted is to milk him entirely before ththe scene.
I think you're the problem here. So what if he was secretive? Don't you trust him? You sound like a pouty prima donna. Maybe he knows you're a "town crier" when it comes to information, or maybe he takes his promises seriously and knew how delicate things would be when it came to keeping you out of the loop. I could just see you making a fuss if he had told you and writing in that " he doesn't pay enough attention to me". Maybe you should go, so he can find himself someone worthy.
Super sexy profile. Mmmmmmmm